3 Easy Ways To Get Your Ex Girlfriend To Talk To You Again

Sometimes when people break up, it's such a loss that you decide you'll do anything to get them back.

That's great, it's exactly what you need to do in order to get them back, but how can you get them back if they're not talking to you? Most people need a little space right after the break up to cool off and calm down, and chances are they don't want to talk to you about it.

Approach # 1
The first approach you should take to get them talking with you again is to call them and ask for it. Ask them if you could meet and catch up, maybe over lunch. If you think they'll be touchy about the subject, let them know that you want to apologize to them in person.

Approach # 2
If they don't want to meet you in person, you can ask a friend to meet them for you. Just ask them to talk with your ex, and ask if there is any way that you can make it up to them and fix any of the mistakes that caused the break up. The friend has to be someone you both trust, and you have to be honest about why you're asking them to do this. Let the friend know that you are trying to get back together with your ex, and that they can help if they want, but you're not forcing them to.

Approach # 3
If your ex doesn't want to talk to your friend about it, the last thing you should try is writing them a letter. Write down your feelings, what you want, why you want it, and how this time will be different. Keep it sweet and sincere, don't go on emotional overload as some of those feelings should be kept to yourself, at least for now. Keep the letter for 24 hours and read it again to make sure it says what you want it to say. When you know it says the right things, take it to your ex yourself. Show them that you are sorry for your part in the break up, and that you know you hurt them. Ask them to read the letter and then let you know if there is any way you can make it up to them.

Remember that you're ex wants space right now, so don't get too clingy at this point. Let them know that you're there for them, and that when they're ready to give it another try, you're ready too, no pressure.

Do you know what to do once they start talking to you again? Check out this complete step-by-step system for how to get your ex girlfriend back, and you'll know what to do every single step of the way to bring them closer and closer to being yours again.