Win Back Her Love - The first (and most important) thing you must do

Have you given up on getting back together with your ex after a breakup? Don't lose hope. If you know that you want to win back her love, then know that it's possible, don't give up. This is the most important first step to take.

Relax, take a minute and breathe deeply. Calm down, and decide honestly if you want to be with your ex again. Deciding I still wanted to be with my ex after she broke up with me was the best decision of my life, and that's why we're together today. Don't panic, just sit down for 5 minutes and think.

Your ex fell in love with you in the beginning, if you panic you'll be putting pressure on her and you'll be hiding the original you that she fell in love with in the first place.

All breakups and separations are very emotional decisions during very emotional times. Things can get out of hand quickly and things are said that shouldn't be said. When strong emotions are involved, it's near impossible to think clearly and think everything through. A decision like that is never final.

It may feel like it, but just remember that it's not completely over yet. Love is not a lightswitch, it can't be shut off just like that.

The most important thing you can do right now, is to take the focus off getting back together. Just focus on being the awesome and amazing person you are when you're with your lady. Just relax, have fun, and be yourself. This, believe it or not, is the best thing you can do right now to win her love back.

So what's next? Take a look at what worked for me and why, find out how to get your ex girlfriend back.