Are You Doing The Right Things To Fix These Mistakes? - Here's What You Can't Afford To Do Wrong

It can be difficult to get your ex girlfriend back. That's why you've got to make sure it's what you want before you try. You have to think about what went wrong last time and decide if you can fix it so that it won't get in the way this time. Once you've decided you want it more than anything else, you've got to dedicate yourself to changing what went wrong the last time.

The first thing to look at is what ended the relationship last time. Really think about what caused the tension, and set out to fix it. Once you know there is no possible way that this could have an effect on your relationship again, you're ready to move on.

Next, think about how the relationship ended. There's two possible ways, you ended it or they did. There is no such thing at the mutual break up. Some people think there is, but when they really dig down to the issues, the break up always turns out to be one sided.

If you were the one that called it off, you have to know that you hurt her feelings. This is going to make her feel insecure about starting it back up with you. She will probably think that what's going on in your head is "I thought I could do better, then figured out I couldn't so decided to settle for you". So you've got to swallow your pride, and admit that you were wrong to call it off in the first place. Let her know that you really miss something that she loves doing together, and also that you miss some things about her too. Be specific and honest. Once she sees that you're being honest and that you made a mistake, you'll be able to ask for your second first date together.

If she was the one to call things off last time, there was something that you did that she didn't like. Depending on how she broke it off, you might know the reason and you might not. All you need to do is figure out what wasn't making her happy and change it. Ask her what you can do to make her happier, and let her know that what was getting in the way last time is completely gone. Let her know why you want to get back together, and how this time will be different from last time. If you show your true thoughts and feelings, she'll see how much you care.